Nothing confuses a person than a cheating partner. Of course you will always notice a change in their attitude but you just can’t know for sure since you’re not a psychologist. These signs below will really help you make your decisions and know if they are actually cheating on you.
1. Beauty Conscious:
Maybe your boyfriend is someone that doesn’t give a damn about his looks before. Like he doesn’t even brush his teeth earlier or take his baths often. When you notice a change in this: like he checks the mirror regularly, trims and shaves often and take care of his appearance and dressing all of a sudden, then he is cheating on you..
2. More Private Phone/Computer use:
This is the most important and common. Its the first thing they resort to when they start creating but you may not notice if you’re too blinded by trust or just entirely carefree. The person that gives you access to their devices before now spends more time alone on the phone, even to the extent of changing their password and always avoid any question concerning what and who they’re chatting with. When you notice this sudden obsession with phone, start to suspect.
3. Drastic change in intimacy:
You have had a girlfriend that loves intimacy and romance but suddenly you notice she doesn’t even seem available anymore. She seems no longer interested in whatever you feel romantically. She also avoids spending time alone with you. This is enough to give you a sign. Something has changed.
4. Unnecessary offences:
Whenever you see your partner always getting angry easily, any slight thing they are pissed and off, then something is wrong. Just a slight mistake from you they take things up and begin shouting and getting to leave, then they are most probably starting to cheat. Of course this could also be because they are angry about a certain thing they haven’t talked about. But most of the times it means they are tired of the relationship because they are cheating on you..
5. Altered Expenses:
Well, this is difficult to know if you’re dating a broke person or if they don’t share financial issues with you. Imagine dating someone you don’t even know what they do for a living. That’s what most ladies do nowadays. Once the guy have money, they don’t care what he’s doing or where the money is from. That’s they won’t even know when the guy goes broke. But if you have had a close relationship with your partner and you understand how they spend and what they spend on, it will be easier for you to know if there is increase in their expenses. Someone that doesn’t club before his now spending on drinks, someone whose salary or monthly income is always enough for is now complaining about being broke by mid month, you should know something else is collecting the money and that’s most probably a woman.
First published by ACEworld on January 30, 2020 @ 10:14 am