Opinion: Acquiring The Best Relationship With Dressing by Esther Emenike | ACEworld

When dressing magnets the right relationship, does it guarantee a lasting friendship?In one of my articles written days ago, I extensively showed how our dressing to a great extent could or not attract the right relationship to us. In the piece, I reminded us that before you could get to know a person`s character, worth or intelligence, his or her dressing must speak first, therefore if the dressing speaks attractive, he`d then be given chance to display his qualities (attributes) but then, does being in a right relationship as a result of the above factor determines the success of the relationship? Of course, no!

“It is one thing to attract and another to keep!” Dressing on its own has the ability to attract or retract a relationship but does not in any way keep the relationship. Every relationship is progressive or not as a result of the attributes of the parties involved. So it is not enough to dress charmingly gorgeous, the question is; does your look match with your innate qualities? I did not use character because keeping or maintaining the life and strength of every relationship goes beyond having just good character, it extends to having match-able brains and intelligence. So you see? Just good character isn`t enough, build your intellectual qualities too!

Inasmuch as you dress to look good, please dress your brains, qualities and character to match with your physical appearance this way, it will not only magnet the right relationship towards you but also build a lasting one.

Now you know that even your dressing can`t do much as keep that relationship, dress your brain looks, character looks and otherwise to match with your physical look that way, you`ll keep the best relationship ever!

Queen Esther Emenike (BleedingPen) is a young creative writer passionate about correcting ills of the society through the art of the pen. She`s the founder of TEENSpecial, a teens platform established for the interest of the teens and giving them a voice the society will reckon with.She loves reading, dancing, cooking and adventures etc, among other things.

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